5 Reasons Dating is Challenging for Introverts (& What To Do About It)

sarah jonesApologies to the extroverted HSPs out there, because today I have a little sumthin’ for the innies. This is a special guest post by Sarah Jones of Introverted Alpha. Sarah focuses specifically on helping introverted men become successful with women in a way that is respectful, insightful, and genuine to both parties. One of the things that makes her successful is how well she understands the nature of introverts. Here’s Sarah with 5 reasons dating is challenging for introverts:

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Do you use high sensitivity as a crutch?

hsp crutchI’ve mentioned several times about how my husband Jim has tried to understand my high sensitivity.

At first, he didn’t buy into the idea at all. Slowly, over time, I could tell he was accepting it more. He was able to observe, realtime, my visceral reactions to things that I’d told him about re: HSP. [Read more…]

HSP Podcast 23: Kindred Spirits

friendship kindred spiritsPontificating on Friendship

“Kindred Spirits” are intimate friends, people with whom you are comfortable being your true self. HSPs are often on the hunt for kindred spirits, especially at parties, gatherings, or networking events. Having a deep, intense, shared connection with someone else is essential to meeting the emotional needs of sensitive people.

In this episode 23, I also talk about Anne of Green Gables, Susan Cain, and why it’s ok to let go of friends you don’t truly connect with.

Resources mentioned in this episode: The Susan Cain & Marie Forleo interview. (The “kindred spirit” part is around 13:00)

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Criticism and insults cut so deep

crumbling smallBeing overly sensitive to criticism is a huge topic, and one that comes up all the time, especially when people first learn about high sensitivity.

I always put off writing about it because it was so vast. But now I have a story.

Today my husband and I were bantering about something, just joking around. But then he went too far and said something hurtful. I don’t even know if he realizes how deeply it hurt me.

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Understanding your HSP Partner (for non-HSPs)

the ancient secrets of HSPs lie inside

Are you are in a relationship with someone who has Highly Sensitive Person traits? Here are some commonly asked questions to help you learn about HSP:

Aren’t “sensitive” people drama queens and crybabies?

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